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Sunday, April 21, 2013

Hixson Blog Post #11

Hixson Blog Post #11


Wow already the end of the semester!
Today’s blog post will include a reading we had to do for Chelsee. The title of the article was, "Social Intelligence and the Biology of Leadership" by Daniel Goleman and Richard Boyatzis. empathy, attunement, organizational awareness, influence, developing others, inspiration, and teamwork, were the 7 qualities that were pointed out in the paper. Our question was to describe two of those qualities we were good at and one quality we were can improve on.

Two qualities of social intelligence that I feel I am good at are teamwork and attunement. I work well with people. I almost prefer to work in a group of people than by myself. I feel like most of college you will be required to work in groups. There are also many opportunities that you are able to be a team leader throughout your college career.  Another quality that I feel that I have is attunement. I am aware of how people are feeling most of the time and I can adjust to help them when possible. I am able to listen to them and provide them with a reply that will make them feel good.

One characteristic of social intelligence that I feel I can improve is influence.  Being able to influence others would be one of the more challenging characteristics. You have to teach yourself to influence in a way you are not being in power. The answer is being able to use influence and being persuasive, without the use of power or control. I want to influence the peer men-tees in a positive way so that they can enjoy their first year at Iowa State. I want to be able to affect them in a positive way rather than trying to persuade of push them. 

2 comments:

  1. I agree with the whole rather work in a group than individually, however only if it's friends of mine because I know they won't slack on anything. I hope we're all great leaders for the mentees and can influence them in one way or another :)

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  2. Cole,

    Great blog my friend. I think that we can benefit from each other because I actually struggle in teamwork and influence abilities. We many be able to work together and help each other out with our weaknesses.

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